The only thing that people in my family know how to do is judge others and run their mouths. I am so sick of them and I am not going to open up about anything again. Most of the things I tell them will be half-truths and I may subtly try to irritate them just to piss them off and be annoying (they definitely deserve it).
At a time when I am still trying to find myself and determine what I want in life, they are among the biggest joy kills that this world can bring. They do not know boundaries nor do they realize how aggravating and annoying I find them. It will be a great day when I can choose how infrequently I want to see and interact with them. I won't have to listen to any more bullshit and drivel that comes out of their mouths.
They are so proud and they think that they are so good. Everything is a competition. I hope that they feel remorse and regret when they have driven a wedge in their relationship with me. There is already a divide between us and there is no way that it can be repaired in my opinion. I have lost my trust and most of my respect for a select group of them.
The grind of work has made it paramount for me to be completely mysterious and indifferent towards having a relationship with them. Sometimes I just feel sorry for them that they do not realize how messed up and warped they are. I am using these things as my motivation to move out and live away from them. I will feed them half-truths and never ever be open with them. After the grief and pain that they have caused me, I need to send a statement that they do not matter to me and I am not interested in maintaining a relationship with them. It is important to cut out the toxins and poisons in your life no matter what or who they are.
I will think of a day when my future wife and future children will not have to be under their sphere of influence. It will be so liberating to know that they do not own or control what I do with my life or with my time. I wonder if they can sense my disdain for them. I'm able to hide it so well and act so polite and cordial.
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